That's the same for women, sure, save for one major difference. There are still a lot of guys out there full disclosure: myself included who don't want anything near their butts. Yes, he might really, really, really fucking hate it. Point blank: "Hey, do you like butt stuff? If he hates it, you're not doing anything wrong.
Phoebe. Age: 32.
Most straight guys don't often get approached for butt stuff, whereas most women get the request at least semi-regularly.
Maggie. Age: 25.
The Beginner's Guide to Approaching Your Man's Butt
Yes, he might really, really, really fucking hate it. When you come home with giant, gallon buckets of lube, your neighbors should assume you're painting your porch. There's a whole spectrum of things you can do with a man's butt. If he shrugs, you need to ask for clarification before you're in figuratively and literally. It might not even be something he's comfortable discussing with you outside the bedroom. Point blank: "Hey, do you like butt stuff?